Refined Daily Expressions
1. Take (someone) in
Meaning 1: To give someone shelter, usually in difficult situations
- “They couldn’t find a host for the exchange student, so my neighbor took her in.”
- “It was nice of them to offer to take us in.”
Why it’s useful: It carries empathy and is often used when someone needs help or support, which is very useful in emotionally sensitive conversations.
2. Take in (an event/place)
Meaning 2: To attend or experience something
- “We could take in a movie tonight if you’re up for it.”
- “We took in a Broadway show on our trip to New York.”
Why it’s useful: A more elegant, slightly vintage way of saying “go to” that sounds well-read and culturally aware.
3. Take in (clothing)
Meaning 3: To alter clothing to make it smaller
- “That dress would need to be taken in at the waist.”
- “I had to get my wedding dress taken in.”
Why it’s useful: Handy when talking about fitting clothes, it can replace the simple “alter” or “resize” in more casual yet specific contexts.
4. Get taken in
Meaning 4: To be fooled or deceived
- “The scalper managed to take in several tourists with his fake tickets.”
- “Do you think I got taken in spending $20 on this mug?”
Why it’s useful: Adds subtlety when talking about being deceived without sounding accusatory—especially in professional or polite conversations.
5. Take it all in
Meaning 5: To absorb or fully comprehend a situation or environment
- “I’m trying to take it all in—there’s so much to see.”
- “After the shocking news, he needed a moment to take it in.”
✅ Why it’s useful: Expresses emotional or mental processing—great for deep or reflective conversations.
Bonus Alternatives
- “Soak it in” / “Drink it in” – Same as “take it in” but more poetic.
- “We need three days in Rome to soak it all in.”
Role Play Script from the Episode
Scenario: Two college students are backpacking across Europe.
Aubrey:
Yeah. This city is amazing. I’m trying to take it all in. There’s so much to see. It’s difficult to know where to head first. And I don’t want to just see the sights. I’d love to take in a play or a concert tonight.
Lindsay:
Absolutely. Hey, do you think I got taken in spending $20 on this souvenir mug?
Aubrey:
No, I think that was a steal. Okay, good. I almost bought that dress, but I could tell it had to be taken in at the waist. I’m glad we didn’t stay with my aunt. It was nice of them to offer to take us in, but I wouldn’t want to disturb them when we get in late.
Practice Paragraph Using All Expressions
While traveling through Italy, I felt overwhelmed trying to take it all in—the architecture, the smells, the sheer energy of the streets. One night, we decided to take in a local opera, something I’d never done before. It was magical. I almost bought a gorgeous vintage dress at a market, but it clearly needed to be taken in at the waist, and I wasn’t about to splurge on tailoring abroad. Speaking of splurging, I wondered if I’d gotten taken in when I paid €25 for a hand-painted espresso cup, but the artist seemed genuine. That night, our hostel was overbooked, and a kind local couple offered to take us in. Their warmth reminded me that travel isn’t just about seeing things. It’s about connecting with people.
Q&A Vocabulary Review
Q1. What is a scalper, and what do they usually sell?
A1. A scalper is someone who buys tickets for events and resells them at a higher price, often illegally or dishonestly.
Q2. How do you pronounce the word “waist” and what does it mean?
A2. It’s pronounced /weɪst/ (rhymes with “taste”). It refers to the narrow part of your body between your chest and hips, or the part of clothing that fits that area.
Q3. What does subtlety mean, and how is it pronounced?
A3. Pronounced /ˈsʌt.əl.ti/ (the “b” is silent), subtlety means being indirect, delicate, or not obvious—often used in communication or actions.
Q4. What does it mean if someone was deceived? And how do you pronounce it?
A4. It’s pronounced /dɪˈsiːvd/. To be deceived means someone tricked or misled you into believing something false.
Q5. What does the word accusatory mean in tone or behavior?
A5. Accusatory means expressing blame or suggesting someone did something wrong. It’s often used to describe a voice, look, or tone.
Q6. What does the phrase sheer energy describe?
A6. It describes pure, intense energy—a strong feeling of liveliness or enthusiasm.
Q7. What does the sentence “I wasn’t about to splurge on tailoring abroad” mean?
A7. It means: “I had no intention of spending a lot of money on altering clothes while traveling overseas.”